The Reset Reading List

“Reading is the basic springboard for learning. And books provide the liftoff. They are the great equalizer, opening up new worlds to everyone.” — Mary Pope Osborne

If you’ve visited our office, or are subscribed to Kerry’s weekly TGIF newsletters, then you know how much we love books. Books offer us both common ground to learn that we’re not alone in our human experience, and usher us into new discoveries about ourselves and the world around us. The below books are some resources that Kerry and our team have used on their own healing journeys, and hope to share them with you on yours:

Addiction: 

In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts by Gabor Maté 

ADD:

Attention Deficit Disorder: The Unfocused Mind in Children and Adults by Thomas Brown

Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder by Gabor Maté

Adolescents:

Brainstorm: The Power and Purpose of the Teenage Brain by Daniel Siegel

The Emotional Lives of Teenagers: Raising Connected, Capable, and Compassionate Adolescents by Lisa Damour

Untangled: Guiding Teenage Girls Through the Seven Transitions into Adulthood by Lisa Damour

Anxiety:

The Wisdom of Anxiety: How Worry and Intrusive Thoughts Are Gifts to Help You Heal by Sheryl Paul

Chronic Pain and Illness:

The Pain Management Workbook: Powerful CBT and Mindfulness Skills to Take Control of Pain and Reclaim Your Life by Rachel Zoffness

Depression:

Lost Connections: Why You’re Depressed and How to Find Hope by Johann Hari

The Mindful Way through Depression: Freeing Yourself from Chronic Unhappiness by Mark Williams, John Teasdale, Zindel Segal and Jon Kabat-Zinn

Education:

The One World Schoolhouse: Education Reimagined by Salman Khan

Unschooling Rules: 55 Ways to Unlearn What We Know About Schools and Rediscover Education by Clark Aldrich

A Thomas Jefferson Education: Teaching a Generation of Leaders for the Twenty-First Century by Oliver DeMille

Choice Words: How Our Language Affects Children's Learning by Peter Johnston

Montessori: The Science Behind the Genius by Angeline Stoll Lillard

An Ethic of Excellence: Building a Culture of Craftsmanship with Students by Ron Berger

The Smartest Kids in the World: And How They Got That Way by Amanda Ripley

Most Likely to Succeed: Preparing Our Kids for the Innovation Era by Tony Wagner and Ted Dintersmith

Food and Body:

Intuitive Eating: A Revolutionary Anti-Diet Approach by Evelyn Tribole and Elyse Resch

Anti-Diet: Reclaim Your Time, Money, Well-Being, and Happiness Through Intuitive Eating by Christy Harrison

Grief and Loss:

On Death and Dying | On Grief and Grieving by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

Holistic Health:

The Well-Lived Life: A 102-Year-Old Doctor's Six Secrets to Health and Happiness at Every Age by Gladys McGarey, MD

Leadership:

Daring Greatly by Brené Brown

The E-Myth Manager: Why Management Doesn't Work - and What to Do About It by Michael E. Gerber

Influencer: The New Science of Leading Change by Joseph Grenny, et al.

Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High by Joseph Grenny, et al.

The Dream Manager by Matthew Kelly

LGBTQ+:

This Is a Book for Parents of Gay Kids: A Question & Answer Guide to Everyday Life by Dannielle Owens-Reid and Kristin Russo

Life Philosophy:

The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz

The Art of Happiness: A Handbook for Living by HH Dalai Lama & Howard C. Cutler

Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are by Brené Brown

Search Inside Yourself: The Unexpected Path to Achieving Success, Happiness (and World Peace) by Chade-Meng Tan

The Big Leap: Conquer Your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the Next Level by Gay Hendricks

The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself by Michael A. Singer

Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life by Henry Cloud

Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol S. Dweck

Mastery: The Keys to Success and Long-Term Fulfillment by George Leonard

The Gift of Fear: And Other Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence by Gavin de Becker

The Happiness Hypothesis: Finding Modern Truth in Ancient Wisdom by Jonathan Haidt

Welcoming the Unwelcome: Wholehearted Living in a Brokenhearted World by Pema Chodron

Meditation:

Why Buddhism Is True: The Science and Philosophy of Meditation and Enlightenment by Robert Wright

Mindfulness:

Present Over Perfect: Leaving Behind Frantic for a Simpler, More Soulful Way of Living by Shauna Niequist

Mind-Body Connection:

When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection by Gabor Maté

This is Your Brain on Food: An Indispensible Guide to the Surprising Foods that Fight Depression, Anxiety, PTSD, OCD, ADHD, and More by Uma Naidoo

The Psychobiotic Revolution: Mood, Food, and the New Science of the Gut-Brain Connection by Scott Anderson

The Mindful Body: Thinking Our Way to Chronic Health by Ellen J. Langer

Parents:

Raising a Secure Child: How Circle of Security Parenting Can Help You Nurture Your Child's Attachment, Emotional Resilience, and Freedom to Explore by Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper and Bert Powell

No-Drama Discipline: the whole-brain way to calm the chaos and nurture your child's developing mind (Mindful Parenting) by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber

The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson

NurtureShock: New Thinking About Children by Po Bronson & Ashley Merryman

Your Three-Year-Old by Louise Bates Ames, Ph.D. (Each book for ages 1-14)

The 3 Big Questions for a Frantic Family by Patrick Lencioni

The Talent Code: Greatness Isn't Born. It's Grown. Here's How. by Daniel Coyle

The Price of Privilege: How Parental Pressure and Material Advantage Are Creating a Generation of Disconnected and Unhappy Kids by Madeline Levine, PhD

10 Conversations You Need to Have with Your Children by Rabbi Shmuley Boteach

2,002 Ways to Show Your Kids You Love Them by Cyndi Haynes

Free-Range Kids by Lenore Skenazy

Relationships:

Say What You Mean: A Nonviolent Approach to Mindful Communication by Oren Jay Sofer

The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership by Jim Dethmer

Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge and the Teachings of Plants by Robin Wall Kimmerer

Dance of Connection | Dance of Anger | Dance of Intimacy by Harriet Lerner

The Art of Showing Up: How to Be There for Yourself and Your People by Rachel Wilkerson Miller

The Healing Connection: How Women Form Relationships in Therapy and in Life by Jean Baker Miller

Trauma:

No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model by Richard C. Schwartz

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk

In an Unspoken Voice: How the Body Releases Trauma and Restores Goodness by Peter A. Levine

Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving: A Guide and Map for Recovering from Childhood Trauma by Pete Walker

It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle by Mark Wolynn

Trauma Stewardship: An Everyday Guide to Caring for Self While Caring for Others by Laura Van Dernoot Lipsky

EMDR: The Breakthrough "Eye Movement" Therapy for Overcoming Anxiety, Stress, and Trauma by Francine Shapiro

Sleep:

Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams by Matthew Walker

Women’s Health:

​​Rushing Woman's Syndrome: The Impact of a Never-Ending To-Do list and How to Stay Healthy in Today's Busy World by Dr. Libby Weaver

Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski

Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily and Amelia Nagoski

Untamed by Glennon Doyle

Yoga and Somatic Therapy:

Somatic Psychotherapy Toolbox: 125 Worksheets and Exercises to Treat Trauma & Stress by Manuela Mischke-Reeds

Restorative Yoga for Ethnic and Race-Based Stress and Trauma by Gail Parker

Bodyfulness: Somatic Practices for Presence, Empowerment, and Waking Up in This Life by Christine Caldwell